Sunshine, He’s Not Leading You On

Episode 32 - Sunshine, He’s Not Leading You On -- You’re Following Too Closely.

If you’ve ever reread a text hoping it meant more, this episode is your breakthrough. Lindsay gets honest about mixed signals, emotional projection, and the truth God reveals when we’re ready to see it. 

Here's What We're Unpacking
💜 The difference between mixed signals and emotional unavailability
💜 Why women often project potential instead of accepting patterns
💜 How impatience and loneliness distort discernment
💜 What God actually says about clarity, peace, and direction
💜 How to step back so a man can step up — or step out
💜 The feminine power of observation, patience, and self-respect

Lindsay brings the truth with love, clarity, and some much-needed sass, reminding you that: God is not the author of confusion — so confusion is your first red flag.

Whether you’re dating, healing, or re-aligning your standards, this episode will help you see the situation clearly and choose yourself with confidence.

Mentioned Resource:

💜 The Relationship Red Flag Journal by Lindsay Brown
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Next Episode: Holiday Hearts & Hidden Tension: Navigating Relationship Drama 

We’re breaking down why the holidays expose the truth about your situationships and relationships. You don’t want to miss this one.

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Host Credit

💜Hosted and developed by Lindsay Brown.

💜Intro and outro voiceover provided by Kaye Winks.

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Keep your light on and your standards high. Thank you for listening. Enjoy today!

Chapters

• 0:00 Welcome Back, Sunshine.
• 1:03 Recap of Last Episode: “That’s Not Intuition -- That’s Insecurity”
• 2:15 Today’s focus: following too closely emotionally.
• 3:29 Guard Your Heart, Not Your Fantasy Bible foundation (Proverbs 4:23, 4:25) and emotional pacing.
• 4:26 Sunshine Story: “He Liked My Smile…” The detailed story of Sunshine building a relationship in her mind.
• 6:39 Coaching Moment: Why over-functioning, over-advocating, and over-communicating sabotage feminine presence.
• 7:56 Sunshine PSA: Stop Building Relationships Alone
• 8:31 Final Truth: He’s Not Leading You On
• 9:35 Relationship Red Flag Journal: What story am I telling myself that his actions do not support?
• 10:39 Next Steps - Pause the Fantasy
• 12:24 Outro Recap
• 13:08 Coming Next on the Lindsay Brown Show